Let me start by saying that I've been through two divorces. The first one was without a doubt very hard. Maybe it was more your typical divorce; she was angry and was out to get as much as she could from me. I don't think that she was specifically vindictive, just very lazy and she wanted to guarantee her future without me in it - best way to do that is to take me to the cleaners - and she did.
Needless to say it did take many years for us to find that happy place where we could discuss the kids, chat with each other and just enjoy what we had without feeling vindictive and angry.
My second one is currently a work in progress, its very different for many reasons that I don't really want to go into here. However, this one is very amicable. In fact right up to t.....Read More